• I decided to try my hand at dyeing with natural indigo powder this weekend since I missed my weeklong workshop at Arrowmont where I would have dyed with a fresh (fermented) indigo vat. Following instructions on the Dharma Trading website, I soaked the natural indigo powder overnight and ground it in a blender. I added soda ash because I’m not interested in playing with lye. I used all the thiourea dioxide I had and tried my best to introduce as little oxygen as possible to the pot, but I still had a deep blue dyebath. I decided that I might as well try it anyway.

    It did not work at all – the dye oxidized in the pot and it all washed out of the skeins. There could have been several reasons I couldn’t keep the extra oxygen out of the pot, one is that our tap water has been cloudy for the past few days. However, I did learn from the experience. I won’t even try to dye in a deep blue indigo vat again – it was a waste of time having to wash out all the skeins and equipment. The good thing is that the skeins are ready to be mordanted and dyed in another dyepot.

    Because I am eager to start on my new tapestry, I’m going to use my Procion dyes. I know how to use them. Later I will try again with pre-reduced indigo crystals.

    Since I am not to let a hot pot of old dye go to waste, I boiled a bundle of glossy photo papers layered with leaves and bound between ceramic tiles at the bottom of what was left in the indigo solution and got some great results. I learned this method from Marilyn Stephens at Interlaced-Textile Arts. I would not have considered using this photo paper for plant prints, but it was bought long ago and gathering dust and probably would not have ever been used. These are all plants that I pass on my walk to work twice a day. I’m not sure whether the indigo will rub off the paper or not, but here are the photos.

  • As promised, here is the audio link to my friend JoJo Hammond’s ReverbNation page, which has the song that she played at my mother’s memorial service. She composed it on the morning of the service, inspired by my mother’s last words.

    I Hope You Have a Good Life by JoJo Hammond

  • My mother, Willye Kate Parham, passed away on June 15, 2014. She was 90 years young. I haven’t known how to post it but I’ve written about her so much here that I thought I should announce it. She left us quickly and peacefully in the hospital at Chapel Hill after a procedure the night before to drain some fluid from around her kidney. She seemed to be fine and the doctors were not overly concerned about the procedure being risky, but it had to be done. The next morning she told the nurses that she had chest pains, then as a nurse held her hand, she said, “I hope you have a good life,” and she passed away.

    Here is one of my favorite photos of her from just a few years ago, being a farmer:

    Being an award-winning artist:

    Being a goof:

    Being elegant:

    Being a bathing beauty:

    Being flat-out gorgeous:

    Being a daughter:

    Being a wife:

    Being a friend:

    Being a sister:

    Being an aunt:

    Being a cousin (and Grace is the other bathing beauty in the photo above):


    Being a Mama and Mom-mo:

    My childhood and adulthood friend, JoJo Hammond (aka Lisa Jo Spivey) sang this song that she composed for her the morning of her funeral at the memorial service. She is working on making a video, which I will post when it is available. Here are the lyrics:

    The thing I remember the most
    Is her pretty little smile.
    She’s been in my life
    since I was a child.
    She loved me just as I am
    She was a good wife, mother and friend
    someone told me the last words she said

    I hope you have a good life
    Sunny days, starry nights
    The one you love by your side
    Just have a good life
    Love your neighbor, be his friend
    Walk an extra mile with him
    I hope you have a good life.

    As long as I can remember
    Her daughter’s been my friend
    She’s been there for me
    Through thick and thin
    I can see her Mama’s eyes
    and that pretty little smile
    I know just like her
    She goes that extra mile

    I hope you have a good life
    Sunny days, starry nights
    The one you love by your side
    Just live a good life
    Love your neighbor
    Be his friend
    Walk an extra mile with him
    I hope you have a good life

    She lived one of the best lives I can possibly think of, and I have been privileged to be her daughter and inherit her genes.

  • The title is a quote from Calvin and Hobbes. It fits for me right now!

    I have entered the kind of good stress that is making me ecstatic and at the same time a bit breathless and wobbly.

    After spending the last ten months or so moaning about needing another fix for my travel/art retreat addiction, I am overwhelmed with riches. Saturday I leave for Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts in Gatlinburg, Tennessee for a week of indigo dyeing with Rowland Ricketts. I am preparing a lot of skeins from my yarn stash (some are really hideous colors bought cheap for overdyeing) so I hope that he won’t mind me popping them in. I have started the design phase of my next large(r) tapestry and I need a variety of blues and purples and greens. I’ll be there for a week, and I’m driving with Divergent from Veronica Roth in the CD player, hoping that will make the lonely drive shorter.

    On the way, the River Arts District Studio Stroll is happening in Asheville right off I-40, so I get the opportunity to stop and do that right at my halfway point. Chad Alice Hagen will be there, so I get to see my new friend!

    Here’s the biggie, though. This is what is wigging me out. After I finally joined the American Tapestry Alliance, I noticed an ad in their newsletter about tapestry retreats. I emailed for more information, and I have to say, it seemed like it would be too good to be true. I was gathering information in case it was an option for next year, because I already have solid plans to go to Colorado and California in September. However, after talking to Pam Patrie on the phone and to others about the logistics, I realized that not only was this opportunity for real, it is doable THIS YEAR. So I am going to a retreat for advanced tapestry weavers and staying for 5-6 nights in a cabin at a beautiful beach on the northwest Oregon coast in late August. What a generous and lovely woman!

    I’m really swooning over this, y’all. Wow.

    I’ll try to post photos from Gatlinburg next week using my Kindle Fire if I can, but I never know whether it will play well with other wifi routers. If not, I’ll post when I come back.

    Here is the tapestry design and cartoon I am working on.

  • Moving forward on getting the new bathroom put in by getting contractors (and such) to give us estimates this week. Praying that the estimates will be reasonable. Praying that the whole process won’t end in the job not being finished and/or me being talked into spending my savings on something else to do with the house. Praying that it will get done this summer. Praying that it will at least get done before I sit on the toilet in the existing bathroom with the cracked floor and fall suddenly into the crawlspace. Praying for patience and wisdom. Praying that all sharp objects are out of reach when my husband decides that he is against doing this after all.

    Praying that I can stop thinking about this long enough to get my supplies ready for my week of indigo dyeing at Arrowmont next week.

    The critter(s) did a lot of damage to my garden last night, so I also have to put protection back on the snap beans. The sunflower and the little rudbeckias are beyond help. I miss my feral kitties. I knew that I should have piked that rabbit head I found on a tomato stake.

    In a effort to feel more positive, I have included kitten photos in this post.

  • An aphorism: “If you are going through hell, keep going.” – Winston Churchill

    A naturally dyed print on cement by nature:

    Woven words:

    First peppers:

    Surprise! I think that I remember tossing some unidentified seeds here. Cucumbers? Will separate and transplant elsewhere.

  • I’ve been known to say that I can only do two of these three creative pursuits at a time: art, cooking, and gardening. I may have to correct that because lately I seem to be down to one at a time. I reached my goals with my gardening. Yay for setting attainable goals! My passion for cooking was lost somewhere around 2009 or so, although my passion for eating is still here. What’s left? Time for my art mojo to come back.

    Part of the problem this year was the little assholes pair of kittens we adopted last August. The older cats are terrified of aluminum foil and I found that putting foil over my weaving on the loom was a good deterrent. However, Pablocito and Diego aren’t afraid of anything. Guess it comes with being orphan kittens at the shelter. I’ve had to limit myself to either working when they are napping, which is usually when I am at my paying job, or figuring out a way to keep them away from my stuff in a studio without a door. It doesn’t help that they love to climb the curtains and so my wall hangings are just another toy. I’ve had to take down a few of my weavings to protect them. I’m not really interested in clipping their claws, although it may come to that.

    Is it worth it? Yeah. I do love the little… felines. They are very entertaining and their personalities have developed. Diego is so much like Guido in looks and coolness and behavior. Pablocito reminds me of a puppy, more than any cat I’ve ever adopted.

    Anyway, I finally figured out a way to have my tapestry loom in a small space where I can protect my weaving from those little… animals. We just put carpet down in this room and I got rid of a lot of stuff and rearranged things. We have a beautiful room divider that we bought a long time ago and there wasn’t a good place for it until now. It is very heavy and it leans up against a board against the bookshelf, making a protected space behind for this tapestry loom I bought when the Center for Creative Arts eliminated their weaving program over a year ago.

    Because it is already warped and has a dog on the loom, and I’m having a hard time getting started, I decided to make a journal tapestry for the month of June and use the already woven part to embellish with whatever. Probably small samples from my indigo workshop coming up in a couple of weeks. Right now I’m using cotton thrums. I like finding uses for things that would be discarded, and I have a LOT of thrums. “Crumbs are the thrums of bread, and thrums are the crumbs of thread.” I believe this quote is by Barry Schacht of Schacht Looms, but can’t find the source. It has always stuck in my mind. In other words, thrums are the wasted yarns and threads from weaving when the fabric is cut off the loom.


    I’ve been inspired by Tommye Scanlin’s tapestry diaries and I just discovered Janette Meetze’s gorgeous woven diary on the Tapestry Facebook group. I think that mine will end up as a mixed media piece or even a book cover, and I won’t be able to weave on it daily. I’m going to let it take me wherever it leads, I guess. That’s been my way, lately.

    I can understand why the original weaver gave up on this project. I can’t think of anything more boring than weaving a large section of plain weave by hand with a white weft. If you want to learn to weave tapestry, please don’t make this mistake. Pick some colors and mix it up.

    I’ve gotten so excited that I finally joined the American Tapestry Alliance. This is going to be a good summer. Yes.

  • The paths are mulched, the seeds are planted, and the seedlings have been transplanted for the summer. I put wire frames and ag-cover fabric over my beds this year. I am determined to win the battle after losing miserably to the critters last year. Now that the mosquitoes are out, I’ll only be out there for short periods of time with organic repellent/long sleeves and pants on.

    Blueberries are on the left and purple snap beans are in the center. That is a potted Meyer lemon tree that we bring in for the winter. We have gotten a few lemons from it. There is a potted habanero pepper to its left. Behind that row is a black netted cover over Cherokee Purple tomatoes that I planted from seed. Bronze fennel from last year is coming up everywhere. The swallowtail butterflies like it. Behind that row, the butchered fig tree is reviving and there are Whippoorwill field peas and yellow crookneck squash under the white fabric. I’m pleased that the peas came up because I have saved the seeds over the years from the first packet I bought at Monticello about ten years ago, and these were about three years old from my last crop. Their germination rate was amazing, considering!

    About half of the Back Forty is still under foliage, and I promised Sandy that he can do with the rest as he likes. The original idea was to have compost delivered and we would build up the beds over the cardboard cover. Hardwood mulch was delivered instead. So the compost will probably have to wait until after the first freeze. At least it will have to for ME to work on it. These half barrels used to be my rain barrels until they started to rot and spring leaks and clog up. They looked great but weren’t as practical as I would have liked. These two barrels have a Sun Gold and a Juliet tomato plant from Handance Farms.

    Above are before and after photos of the herb end of the bed. There is French sorrel, English thyme, borage, parsley, bronze fennel, pineapple sage, stevia, and hopefully some basil soon. I have more culinary herbs in the front garden.

    The butterbeans along the fence were my only success last year so I planted more this year. There are a variety of pole beans that I’ve saved over the last couple of years and so they have probably cross-bred. They range in color from white to red to black/purple/white speckled. Sweet peppers from Handance Farm are in the pot and planter, and we are eating lettuce right now from one area. Spinach and turnip greens did not do well at all and those seeds were new! Bull’s blood beets and basil are coming up along side the beans and there are some more purple snap beans in there somewhere too. Jalapeno, Thai hot, hot banana peppers and an eggplant are in an unseen planter to the right of the path.

    The seckel pear tree is full of little pears again and I’ll have to think about how to save a few for ourselves from the squirrels this year.

  • Wow – this may be the craziest spam comment I’ve ever gotten: “I looked inside portable vaporizer and I was in a perfectly and there
    is no disturbance due to the future king. I adore, but, like wind, during the
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    There is less and less opulence.”

    What do you suppose he was selling? 😀 Well, I hope that you’ll be able to find a portable vaporizer if your search brings you here, but I ain’t selling them, sorry. However, that is close to poetry.

    I think of so many things to put on this blog but I just can’t get inspired enough to type on my tiny Kindle keyboard and my laptop is dead. Then by the time I get to use a real keyboard, the thoughts have vanished.

    One thing is that I miss the mulberry tree on our street. It was cut down last year just before the berries were ripe, for no reason that I can figure out, in the church parking lot redo. There were no parking spaces put down where the mulberry tree was. Maybe they didn’t like the birds bombing their cars with purple splats? Oh boy, maybe I will let all the pokeweed grow to fruit stage for the birds (and dyepot) this year. I figured out something after picking mulberries from the trees along the creek at the Greensboro Farmers’ Curb Market on Saturday. Mulberries are delicious eaten straight off the tree, but they lose their magic when you put them in a bag to eat later. I miss showing up for work in June with mulberry stains all over my hands.

    I’m getting all jiggley with anticipation for my workshop at Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts in two weeks. I went to Value Village thrift store on the last Wednesday of May (half-price on everything) in search of natural fabrics to dye in the indigo pot. I scored with a new-looking white cotton muslin sheet set and 6 shirts of cotton, linen, and silk with a grand total of about $12.50. The problem is that I have to wash them so many times in Charlie’s Soap to get the perfumes out. I understand why they use such strong detergent to wash used items but jeez Louise the scent was killing me! The third wash in hot water finally made it tolerable but I would love it if anyone had some tips for me to solve this problem. I am terribly allergic to many fragrances.

    About to head out to my first Moral Monday rally of the year in Raleigh. I’d promise photos but I think that my battery is almost dead. I don’t volunteer for civil disobedience but every single body there in support of our civil rights and against the devastating extremist legislation coming out of the Tea Party government in our state capitol makes a difference, especially now that they have passed new laws to try to take away our First Amendment rights.

    Feeling pretty good and I’ll have both an art and a Back Forty update up within the week.

  • Sandy and I spent a couple of days at Lake Waccamaw at my cousin’s house last week. It was a busy week despite being on vacation. We spent one day reading and playing in the water and the next day we went to Wilmington briefly and I did some eco-printing inside because of the rain and the midges and mayflies. When the workers began cutting back the bushes at the house next door on Friday morning we both decided to split and go to Marietta with Mama.

    The full moon was beautiful the first two nights. The third night there was a tornado warning for a few minutes but most of the weather shifted to our northwest. Thank goodness, since there is no good place to take cover in the lake house.

    I walked around the yard between storms and collected as many different fresh leaves as possible, combined them in a folded accordion book with some metal pieces that I’ve collected, and steamed the book, then immersed it in a dyebath with privet leaves and flowers and bald cypress needles in lake water. I figured that the bald cypress needles and lake water would provide enough tannin to create a mordant.

    The problem was that I used too much metal and to me it spoiled a lot of the individual prints. The ones I like the most are simple. Also, part of my goal was to identify which leaves made the best prints, and for the most part, I couldn’t tell you. The Virginia creeper and Rose of Sharon leaves made nice prints:

    There were other vines that I liked and the oxalis stems and bald cypress needles made nice lines. The flowers on the shrubbery and privet flowers worked well too, but very subtlely.

    Mama transferred from the rehab center to my sister’s house for a week, and then we met my brother-in-law halfway on Friday and took her home. It’s been about a week since she went home and although she is still weakened, a physical therapist is coming to her house three days a week and she has a little more paid help to assist with light housework and yard work. She also has an amazing community around her that supports and loves her. I’ll go back down there this Saturday and stay the night.

    I hate all the driving but I’ve found that books on CD makes it much more bearable. I decided to listen to Newberry Medal winners that I never read, because they are a little easier to follow while driving. Anything more complicated causes me to skip back to see what I missed, IF I missed something, when I am distracted by something on the road. Last week Sandy and I listened to Hatchet by Gary Paulsen and this week I will listen to Holes by Louis Sachar.

    We came home to a huge pile of hardwood shredded mulch in our driveway. The problem was that I ordered compost. We are using part of the mulch to put on our paths but it was disappointing since I thought that I’d be planting more in raised beds this month. Oh well. Actually, last week really sucked for the most part. A friend died, my sister’s cat was bitten by a poisonous snake and died (I loved that cat and everyone is wrecked over his death), my laptop got a bad virus and didn’t come back intact after wiping the hard drive, and our basement flooded. I’m looking forward to that week in June in Gatlinburg, studying indigo dyeing with Rowland Ricketts at Arrowmont School of Arts and Crafts.

    However, even though the kittens are almost a year old, they are so much fun. We put carpet down in my bedroom and it looks and feels so much better. Still reorganizing and getting rid of stuff and it feels good. We celebrated our 27th wedding anniversary and ate a delicious brunch on Sunday at Sweet Potatoes on Trade St. in Winston Salem. Best shrimp and grits that I’ve ever eaten and I do not made that statement lightly.

    Will try to do better with the blog posting but between work and Mama’s illness it was all a little too much.