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Honestly…

I really don’t know why I can’t get myself to catch up on my blog posting.  The thing is that I love  to look back on my travel posts, and I frequently refer to my search and category functions when I don’t remember a date or a name. You would think that with all the extra time on my hands that I’d be motivated to blog more. Instead I find myself on social media platforms.

Anyway, I have at least begun editing the photos from my fabulous UK trip with my sister and my friend in May, and I hope that I will get around to writing the posts before I forget half of it. I have also edited and uploaded my 100 stitch meditation photos, a project which has captured my creative spark.

Right now my heart is with my buddy boy Diego, who got a diagnosis of malignant, aggressive salivary gland cancer a week ago. I’m spending as much time as possible with him, and I am now glad that I did not plan any trips this summer. It is making it doubly hard to leave my bedroom, though, and that’s something I have to push through. Right now he is having breathing issues but is still eating, although there are times I really have to push it. He started a liquid med on Friday night that seems to be helping him.

Here he is with my newest reading material.

I started writing this on my phone to prime the pump so I guess I’ll head to the computer to work on those photos and travel posts.

Cornwall, London/Cornwall 2024, Penzance, UK

Penzance, May 19, 2024

On Sunday morning, Susan and I relaxed in our cozy cottage while Lisa went to church at the chapel across the street from us. We finished our laundry, since we packed for a week, doing carry-on luggage only for our trip.

Since this would be our only day when we could have a traditional British Sunday roast, we headed to the Turks Head for lunch. A huge lunch. A wonderful lunch, with Yorkshire pudding and the works.

That afternoon, we took a taxi to St. Michael’s Mount. Getting a taxi in Cornwall, we found, took a lot more effort that we anticipated! But we made it there in plenty of time to take a boat over (it was high tide), and hike up to the castle, which was steeper and more treacherous than I remembered from our trip in 2017. The gardens alone are worth the trip over there, and the views are amazing.

Inside the castle, the guide took a photo of Lisa and I under the Arundell family crest in the Chevy Chase Room. No, not the actor, it refers to the plaster frieze around the walls, which was based on a song titled “The Ballad of Chevy Chase.” The Arundells are our direct ancestors.

Susan goofs for the camera in front of this modern sculpture of St. Michael offering mercy to the devil after defeating it, placed on top of an original medieval plinth in the castle chapel.

While we waited for our taxi in Marazion, we had ice cream from this little shop.

The building across from where we waited had a painting on it that looked like real flowers. I also liked the Mad Tea Party painting.

We were all exhausted when we returned, so we got takeout from a Chinese restaurant around the corner, and packed up for our journey to Port Isaac the next day.

Cornwall, London/Cornwall 2024, Penzance, UK

Penzance, May 18, 2024

St. Michael’s Mount from Penzance

I slept late while my sister and friend headed down to the harbour for coffee. Once I got up, we decided that we needed a few groceries and so we walked down the Promenade to the Lidl. On the way, we stopped for a light lunch at a little cafe/bakery/ice cream shop called the Art Cafe. I had a cheese scone with chutney, and that simple lunch was one of the best meals I had. It was an absolutely gorgeous day. Even though there was still a chill in the air, people were swimming.

We took some time to noodle around on a beach and around the rock pools.

May is a perfect time to visit the British Isles if you love wildflowers. The photo below was taken looking down at the building under our patio.

We found out much later that collecting pebbles on the beach is a no-no. For this avid rockhound, that’s like offering heroin to an addict and then snatching it away. The pebbles were amazing in variety and beauty. Look at the image of a blackbird on the rock in the corner.

We had to remove the pebbles from the window sill because a very aggressive, huge seagull thought they were food and was attacking the window.

Lisa and I took a walk around the center of town around 3:30-4 and found that most of the shops closed at 3 or 4 p.m., which was a surprise on a Saturday! We did find a cute gift shop with unusual items and a nice bookshop.

That night we went out pub hopping and our first stop was the Turks Head, a 13th century pub just up the street.

We had dinner across the street at the Artist Residence hotel restaurant.

The wall in the entry of the Artist Residence.
Lamb for dinner.
The Admiral Benbow across the street.

In hindsight, even though I enjoyed this day immensely, I might have done things differently. The reason I picked Penzance as the first place to land in Cornwall was so we could easily travel by train or car to nearby places in southern Cornwall such as Mousehole and St. Ives, but there wasn’t enough time. I was weary, a bit sick, and my knee still ached from my tumble in the museum several days before, so I really needed a break. Lisa helped me do the exercises to fix my vertigo (it is from ear crystals getting out of place in my inner ear, and the exercise is called the Epley maneuver.) It was a lovely day, but there were missed opportunities that we wouldn’t have a chance to do later on. They will happen on a future trip, because I will always want to go back to Cornwall.

Cornwall, London/Cornwall 2024, Penzance, UK

London to Penzance, May 17, 2024

Late Friday morning, we took a train from Paddington Station in London to Penzance, a ride that took 5-6 hours. I did not take any photos from the train, but the views became lovelier the closer we got to our destination, with pretty villages and the harbours of Portsmouth out the window.

One thing that had changed since Sandy and I took the train to Exeter in 2017 was that the seat assignments were shown on a digital screen above each row of seats. If you didn’t have an assigned seat, then you were to look at the screens and take an available seat, or an empty seat when we had passed the station and the passenger had obviously not boarded. I thought this was a great idea, but people pretty much ignored it. We usually had to ask people to move out of our assigned seats, and later someone told us that that was pretty much the norm when we had to hunt down unassigned seats on a crowded train back to London. It was never a problem. On the train and on the Tube, people were generally very polite and even offered up their seats to us.

(Guess that means we are senior citizens, for sure, now!)

Once we got to Penzance, I found that my belief that we could use Uber in Cornwall was very, very wrong. We caught a taxi from the train station to our little apartment near the harbor and promenade, and discovered that we could have easily walked it, even with our luggage. Views from my upstairs bedroom:

We had wanted Indian food for a while, and we found a great Indian restaurant just up the street from us on Chapel St. It had an unusual menu in which you chose from a long list of sub-menus of a main dish and lots of side dishes. You could also let the chef decide for you. The food was great – one of the best that we had in the United Kingdom.

Those are some spicy rims on our drinks.

London, London/Cornwall 2024, UK

London, May 16, 2024

This morning, after our coffee and pastries downstairs, we headed to the Natural History Museum.

The geology and rock rooms were the most fascinating to me, although I guess my vertigo distracted me and I didn’t take any photos. The room in the back of the rock and mineral hall had a vial of stardust that was billions of years old.

blue whale skeleton hanging over the entrance hall

We walked through the dinosaur room pretty quickly.

We had a light lunch in the cafeteria in the museum, and again, I was surprised at how good the food was.

Believe it or not, the SAME thing happened on the same street (Queen’s Gate) with the police and the limo. However, this time the windows were darkened and you couldn’t see who was inside.

Since we had all packed for a forecast of rain and cool weather, we had a need for some warm weather clothes. So I got to do another thing that I missed on my previous trip to London – head to Gudrun Sjoden to do some shopping. Other than t-shirts and thrift store clothing, my closet is full of Gudrun Sjoden, but I always have to do mail order, and sometimes it’s disappointing and I have to return clothes. To be able to try on the clothes before buying – YAY. We all enjoyed it and they had to run us out of there after a couple of hours because of a special event.

It was fun to walk around Covent Garden too, but I had to skip the Charing Cross Road bookshops again. One day I’m going to make this happen.

By this time, we were getting pretty comfortable with the tube system and we found a small station that was much closer to our hotel. We were also able to talk to them about how to book the train tickets for Friday, so we went to Paddington Station and did that. I am glad that we did, because it saved us a LOT of money. Buying the three tickets together snagged us a group rate. I would have never guessed it from the web site or app.

For dinner, we decided to go back to the Lillie Langtry. It was much busier and the waiter was cute and friendly – when they are smart they know how to get a good tip out of three American women. It was decided by the group that I had to drink gin and tonics because tonic water would be good for my RLS, so of course I obliged them. This one had cucumbers in it. Football was on, and when we asked, turns out that they are a Chelsea pub. He said that the next night would be crazy in there. Later in the trip we found out about pubs on Friday nights in play-off season.

London, London/Cornwall 2024, UK

London, May 15, 2024

On Wednesday, we decided to do a hop-on hop-off bus tour. We generally rode on the top deck at the front of the bus and it was a little like being in front of a roller coaster at times. Lots of fun!

Since we were coming up to the Trafalgar Square, we decided to do a short foray into the National Gallery. We also had lunch there, which was surprisingly delicious! Beets and goat cheese were involved.

We didn’t have a lot of time, so we picked a section to walk through. Too many photos, of course, so here are three of my favorites from that section.

The best part of this hop-on tour was a short cruise down the Thames, with a very entertaining guide. Slideshow below, which is not in any kind of order:

Walking across the Tower Bridge was fun.

Part of the tour included a “Jack the Ripper” walking tour, but we didn’t make it there in time. So we got back on the bus. It was unseasonably warm, and we were ready to take a break, so the only photos I have of Westminster Abbey are from the bus and the boat.

That night we had dinner at another pub close to our hotel, the Atlas, which I highly recommend. Again, we had a great time. We all fell in love with sticky toffee pudding with ginger ice cream, which unfortunately didn’t photograph well so is not shown here.

London, London/Cornwall 2024, Victoria and Albert Museum

London, May 14, 2024

We knew that we weren’t going to have time to see much in London – there is SO MUCH to see, so we decided beforehand what we would focus on seeing. The biggest consensus was the Victoria and Albert Museum, so we slept a little late (at least, I did), had coffee and a pastry downstairs, then went to lunch at a friend’s recommended cafe, Coco Momo on Gloucester Road.

I remember only that it was delicious and there is crab and pea shoots on top.

As we walked to the Victoria and Albert Museum, some motorcycle police drove up, stopped us from crossing the street and stopped traffic, and then damned if a limo with King Charles at the back seat window went right by us. It was all over in a flash.

We stayed in the Victoria and Albert Museum until they closed. I think we saw less than half of the free part of it. Susan wandered off on her own, and almost right away Lisa and I stumbled upon “The Edinburgh Seven” tapestry installation by the Dovecot Tapestry Studios in a medieval/renaissance gallery!

There were a few impressive tapestries on display at the V&A. My preference is for modern tapestry, but this 15th century tapestry depicting The Trojan War really blew me away. I had to take detail shots of this one.

Seems like wherever I travel these days, I have the fortune of seeing a fabulous Chiluly. You could see this one as you walked in the front entrance.

This sculpture by Cornelia Parker, titled “Breathless,” is another sculpture hanging over a public space below.

Around 4:00, I was distracted looking for a bathroom and nearly face planted off a step in the gift shop. Over a month later my knee is still sore, but fortunately there was no joint damage, and after sitting out in the garden with a bag of ice on my knee I had no problems walking to the next place, which was Harrod’s! Boy, did I feel like a po’ country girl in the big city. Lisa, however, was celebrating the sale of her house and is very fashion conscious, so she bought a couple of clothes items. I absolutely love the happy expression on my sister’s face.

For dinner and libations, we decided on the Blackbird, which we had spotted near the Earl’s Court tube station. I really wish I had taken photos. We ordered a savory pie sampler for the table, which had chicken, steak and Guinness, and vegetarian pies, along with a lot of side dishes. We were happy campers at a comfy table!

London, London/Cornwall 2024, UK, Wildflowers

London, May 13, 2024

On May 12, 2024, my sister Lisa and my friend Susan and I traveled from Raleigh Durham airport to London, via Boston and on Jet Blue. I just want to mention briefly that the Jet Blue experience was great for the three of us. We were surprised at how good the food was, and that free mixed drink on the way to London came in handy for settling down for an overnight flight. Not that I slept. We turned out to be excellent traveling companions, but that was no surprise to me.

We lucked up and found this comfy spot to hang out during our long layover in Boston airport.
Just out of the Earl’s Court tube station, where this navigator with no sleep led us in a much longer walk than necessary to get us to the hotel.

We were staying in an iBis hotel on the edge of Chelsea and Earl’s Court, and it turned out to be under heavy renovation. Maybe this is why, when we trudged in at 10 a.m., they were quite generous in letting us check into rooms early. We were exhausted enough that we managed to get some napping in that day despite the drilling and hammering.

Just down the street was a pub called the Lillie Langtry, and we walked down there for a mid-afternoon lunch. I probably ate healthier here than I did for days (that’s jackfruit), and had to document my first meal and Guinness in London. The chips were REALLY good.

Then, we decided to walk up the street and check out what appeared to be an abandoned cemetery on our way in. Oh no, it was not. It was the huge Brompton Cemetery, a Royal Park dating back to 1840, “where the entire landscape was conceived as a garden as valuable for the living as for the dead.” The overgrown wildflowers and “weeds” were deliberate. There were forget-me-nots in bloom everywhere. This may have been my favorite place I visited in London. If my phone battery had not died, I would have taken many, many more photos.

We crashed again for a little while, and then Lisa and I walked to a wonderful pub called The Fox and Pheasant and had a late dinner. I had the chicken pie, and Lisa had pork belly. It was a much longer walk that we had anticipated, so we caught an Uber back, which was really easy.

coffee pot posts

Saturday coffee pot post

I haven’t posted for over a month, which is probably the longest or close to the longest I’ve ever gone without writing. It’s not that I’ve had nothing to say, or that I’ve done nothing. All in all, retirement is working out well for me. Time goes very quickly. I am never bored. As I suspected, the best part is sleeping late when I have trouble getting to sleep at night. I feel much better now that I am not sleep deprived.

It seems that this area of my life has been supplanted by the stitch meditations, and if I have something to say or post, the quicker, easier choice has been in social media.

Right now I am working part-time remotely in a temporary project scoring fourth grade writing tests. I’ve been doing it for two weeks. My eyeballs hurt, and my heart hurts. Why are these young kids expected to do these tests? Most of them don’t seem to understand what is expected of them. Occasionally I’ll get a very good writer that doesn’t understand the instructions.

I’ve made a lot of jokes about working for the Robot Overlords, but it really does concern me sometimes. Since I applied in December, I had no human contact (and that was by chat) until a week into the project. I still don’t know who my team leader is, and when I ask, I get no answer. I was told by a team leader to inform the scoring director of my upcoming two week absence, but the scoring director brushed me off when I asked how I could contact her in the proper communication channel. She said she would contact me. She has not.

However, I did get paid yesterday, so…it’s not a bad gig to work from home. At least I’m not grading the same prompt repeatedly. There’s some variety. I suppose at some point we readers/evaluators will be replaced by AI.

When I begin, I thought that I might work 8 hours a day up to 40 hours since I will have to leave the project early. Now my eyeballs are saying differently. As if staring hard at the computer screen will make the students understand! I feel strongly about giving them the most accurate evaluation that I can. 20 hours is probably going to be the maximum that I can stand. I usually do a few hours in the late morning/early afternoon and then a couple more later that night.

I haven’t gone to the studio as much, but when I have, I’ve worked on the pages for what I am calling my Dark Forest book. I couldn’t find the color and texture of paper that I wanted for some of the pages, so I painted some of my handmade papers an almost black green. I feel eager to go ahead and bind the book and finish the cover, but I am still deciding on whether to embellish or write on some of the pages within, and I know that it will be better to bind the book after I finish the pages. Some ideas: text from the Hobbit about Mirkwood. Wendell Berry poetry. Other poetry about wildness and forests. Sketching or stenciling inside. Leaf prints inside.

Last weekend we were at Oak Island with friends, in a lovely little cottage on the Intercoastal Waterway (salt marsh) side. I think my favorite part was watching the big storms roll in with good friends who appreciated weather watching as much as I do. I used my Merlin app to identify a colorful painted bunting! Afterwards we stopped at Lake Waccamaw on the return home and visited with my sister and niece. A male wood duck came near Lisa’s back porch and I was able to see this shy bird up close, as well as a pileated woodpecker from ten feet away across the road on the canal side! And about as many gators as I’ve ever seen (in the canal), I think. I haven’t become blase about the gators quite yet.

I walked a bit on the beach with the “girls” but I can’t do a whole lot of walking right now. I will get a steroid shot next Wednesday and hopefully it will help with the walking pain when I go to England with my sister and friend in two weeks. I am determined that I am going to walk again on that beautiful coast path in Cornwall.

Today I need to plant some seedlings that I grew in upcycled plastic jugs – two kinds of snapdragons, black hollyhocks, and coreopsis. Juliet tomato seedlings will be ready to plant in containers soon.

So, you may not hear much from me on this blog or Substack (which, quite honestly, I am waffling on continuing, AGAIN) for several weeks. I’m trying to save my eyeballs for my work and for my stitching.

fiber art, Slow cloth, Upcycling

100 Days of Stitch Meditation

^Today’s stitch meditation

Here’s another path I followed away from my funk into creative mode. This time of year a lot of artists do some kind of 100 day “challenge.” I’ve participated in one of these challenges once before but it was for any kind of artistic effort and I was circling the hole of deep depression. It didn’t work for me and I went in the hole and didn’t finish the challenge. Nowadays my mental health is much better (thanks, vitamin D supplements and therapy!) and I’ve found that the way my brain works it can persist in a long term project much better with some kind of structure. I think that is why I am more attracted to fine craft rather than anything goes kind of art.

Artist Liz Kettle is leading this community project in a private Facebook group but many have tagged their meditations in Facebook and Instagram. I’ve made a slideshow on the front page of my website and will be adding to it as I get around to uploading photos.

The point of this is the meditation – NOT slow stitching, which is very similar but generally has more design thinking involved. In these stitch meditations, you settle into the process of the stitching itself. No pins, no taking out mistakes. Just stitching.

I can’t say that I’ve completely followed these “rules” but for the most part I have and it has been very calming and centering once I enter the flow of the stitching. Usually what works best for me is just straight running stitches and using my scraps just as I pull them out of the box. Later I may or may not trim the edges. I might pay attention to the color of the thread or I might use whatever I pick up first. The blocks are approximately 4 x 4 inches but I don’t worry about keeping them square. I’m using a very loosely woven old curtain for my backing cloth.

At the top is number 33, and I’ve added 28 and 22 below as some examples. I skipped a couple of difficult days but usually I simply started something and then finished it the next day if there was a problem with pain or travel.

If you follow me on Instagram or either of my Facebook pages, I post these daily (usually) with a bit of commentary (usually).